Ladies this puts you in a viscous cycle of dating someone who is taken, and never having a fulfilling relationships. Stop saying shady comments like “he’s not married”, “is he wearing a ring”, “I’m doing you the favor that he is a bad guy”, etc. We all want what we cannot have, that allure and curiosity that entices us, because of the intriguing nature. It is important to remember that relationships are not a game, and the games that are played can seriously hurt someone. Intentional behavior means it is done purpose and/or deliberately. That means you are intently hurting someone and even possibly multiple people for your enjoyment. That is not okay! Identify those problematic areas, and do what is necessary to improve them so you may have a happy and successful relationship. How would you feel if you found the love of your life was playing with someone like you had once done? What goes around comes around.